Is submission a struggle for a modern black woman?
One time I attended an empowerment seminar for women and a young lady asked a pertinent question to the panel of speakers, whether it is possible to find a man that will not be emasculated by her achievements and how to navigate submission while possessing a leadership character or strong personality. Well I do not […]
Communication is easier said than done
Almost every source out there on relationships swear communication is the key to a successful marriage, but they never talk about how hard communication is, infact it is very unlikely for someone to communicate their feelings without the other person feeling attacked, before you know it, a simple question like, “why didn’t you put a […]
The Art of Sex in Marriage 🔥
My naughtiness keeps dragging me to unpack on sex, I probably have the same excitement as the kids that wrote S-E-X on primary school toilets when I write about sex, yheey but do you blame me? Sex is the girl, she thinks she is! The bomb.com. No wonder the devil has made it his stronghold […]
Why bother getting married? 🙄
Marriage is a gift from God and it is the most challenging relationship most people experience, it’s in this challenges that have brought about the world being repellent against the idea of marriage , now we have young women and men asking themselves why get married anyway? Marriage is becoming more irrelevant as the divorce […]
Post partum depression rebirthed me 🥀
Postpartum depression is still a taboo in black communities; black women have been the epitome of strength and backbone of our societies and it becomes hard for us to admit that we are overwhelmed. Some of us we cannot even tell our mothers because they are unaware of this monster that is lurking in the […]
First year of marriage showed me flames: Was he really my dream husband?
The reason I wrestled God for nudging me to start this blog was the fear of putting myself and my marriage out there, but I have soon come to realise that no matter how we as Christians try to glamourize the grace of God and live in a bubble of brokenness and ugliness we hide […]
How I met my husband : A testimony 🌸
Is intimacy one of the major factors in lack of sex in marriage #Marriage #NewlyWed #BoldTiffy
Ever wondered why people lose themselves and get comfortable in relationships/Marriages?Lose I mean gaining weight, letting go of our aspirations etc.Well I believe its because of Intimacy. Most of us when we get into relationships we lose our own uniqueness and individualism for the sake of building an “Us”. Do not get me wrong being […]
Sex all the time!!No one prepared me for this 😂 #Marriage #NewlyWed #BoldTiffy
LOL , Dr Myles Munroe ,may his soul rest in peace would often make jokes about how newly married women would seek counsel to him with the worry that a sexual demon has taken over their newly found husbands and how he would tell them that he also has the same demon 😂😂, yeii turns […]
The Journey Begins
Thanks for joining me! Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak Walton