Individualism in the Marriage.
“When you love something set it free, if its yours, it will come back, if it doesn’t, it never was” – My Mother This is one of my mothers favorite phrases, I grew up hearing my mom saying it often and of course there was a frame of this quote on our living room wall. […]
Your peace is your mental Stability
“For the kingdom of God is not meat and drink; but righteousness, and peace, and joy in the Holy Ghost.” – Romans 4:17.. For someone that have struggles with mental health issues, it took me a while to actually assimilate biblical peace with mental health. Those two are actually the same thing. Today when i […]
Toxic Masculinity: The silent Marriage killer.
“Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another.”- Proverbs 27:17 The husband is the head of the family, he is the visionary and a better way to cripple the whole marriage is to tackle the husband. Toxic masculinity has been the devils weapon against marriages for generations and unfortunately we are losing the fight. The […]
Unequally yoked: Spirituality in the Marriage.
“Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness?”- 2 Corinthians 6:14 A lot of sermons I have come across interpret this scripture to a spiritual yoke, well it only makes sense as its a verse from a bible but a lot […]
Steady, hold on to something : An anchor
“Hope is a strong and trustworthy Anchor for our souls.” – Hebrews 6:19 If there is anything the past year has taught us, is that life without spirituality is like floating in a river without an anchor. To keep you afloat in a the River. This statement intensified more as the events of 2020 unravelled, […]
Let’s start over…Here is to a fruitful 2021 🥂
“Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour.“ – 1 Peter 5:8 A little too late for compliments of the new year….I know. Where have I been right? Where do I even begin? But first let me start off by apologising for going […]
Compromise but don’t lose you
One of the pillars that sustain a marriage is compromise; I think we have heard it a thousand times especially when it comes to marriage advices, talks, seminars everywhere really , surely as a new wife I believe in some parts of it but I have also seen how over compromising has sucked the life […]
Marriage is not a happiness bubble factory
Hmmm I know right, where is Tiffy going with this? I think the biggest misconception the world and media was to create an illusion and perception that marriage is a cloud of romance and “happily ever after” concept. Do not get me wrong marriage is beautiful and can eventually lead to joy, peace and happiness […]
Wife, nurture you first, in other words Cav yourself!!
For the longest time I have postponed loving myself , its either I was too broke and I would tell myself when I get a job I’m going to do 1,2,3…or rather if I lose a little weight I would love myself better. Looking back I regret postponing loving myself because I’m currently loving myself […]
I can not change him, but I can change myself
Hello again BoldTiffy readers, it is been a whole two months of not blogging, between juggling online studying as the result of Covid19, to motherhood, wifehood and blogging it became a little overwhelming to juggle everything at once. I know I stopped blogging abruptly and for that I apologise. I have however taken time to […]