Believing God for your marriage restoration.
“The hand of the Lord was on me, and he brought me out by the Spirit of the Lord and set me in the middle of a valley; it was full of bones.2 He led me back and forth among them, and I saw a great many bones on the floor of the valley, bones that […]
When Marriage changes you
“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” -Proverbs 4:23 As far as I can recall, I have always been a bubbly, charismatic person but beneath all of that I hated aggression with all of my heart. Confrontation has always been a nightmare to me. My little sister always felt […]
Does Christianity Glorify Struggle?
“I will put this third into the fire and refine them as one refines silver and test them as gold is tested. They will call upon my name and I will answer them. I will say, ‘They are my people’, and they will say, ‘The Lord is my God’ “. – Zechariah 13:9. Life has […]
Transparency leads to intimacy.
“Search me, Oh God, and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts” – Psalm 139:23. Transparency in a relationship is defined as being open by sharing our thoughts and feelings honestly without fear of judgement or repercussions. Any relationship or Marriage without transparency lacks intimacy, well I guess it is safe to say […]
Who is raising boys into righteous husbands?
“Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it.”- Proverbs 22:6. When Beast and I finally decided to start a family, one thing was clear to me,I wanted a boy. My yearning for raising a boy started at a very young age, I […]
My mistakes and lessons so far as a young wife.
Unmarried youth can read all the books, attend all the marriage seminars , read all the Boldtiffy Blogposts to prepare themselves for marriage but experience has always been the best teacher and anyone that is married reading now will attest that as they evolve and their marriage evolve, there really isn’t a rule of thumb […]
A raging war for marriages
“..For the weapons of our warfare arenot fleshly but mighty in God for pulling down strongholds..”- 2 Corinthians 10:4 “..Put on the whole armour of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil…”Ephesians 6:11 If anyone would have told a younger version of me that one day God will place […]
Surviving unemployment as a wife.
“The Lord is my shepherd , I shall lack nothing. He makes me lie down in green pastures. He leads me beside the still waters”- Psalm 23: 1-2. When my mother finally decided to leave my father, one thing that stood out from that separation was her ability to start over from scratch, it was not […]
When is it time to let go?
“So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”- Matthew 19:6 Since I started blogging about marriage, interestingly enough I have also took upon on a role of a counselor, that time my marriage also needs some greasing…lots of it. I started the marriage blog […]
Maybe you are the toxic one….
“Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.”- Colossians 3:13. Have you ever heard someone narrate a fall out with someone? Of course, the other person is the villain. Human beings are self-seeking in nature and it takes a few emotionally […]